Pre-wedding jitters

Is it normal?

Top 3 causes

1. The wedding day- Sometimes it is the wedding day itself that causes anxiety. They are anxious about being the center of attention. You are worrying if everything is perfect- the food , the decor, the dress, the cake... everything. Because you want everything to be perfect. During this period all you need is to be with your loved ones, Getting support for your wedding is essential. Relax and take time off, let the wedding planner do your work for you. You are paying for the paying for the event planner after all right? haha.

2. Becoming a "wife" or "husband"-  Our parents marriages are the foundation for our own marriage. So yes there sure is alot of expectations. We learn from them on how relationships work. they form the base line for us. The thought of becoming a wife or husband can be intimidating and overwhelming because you want to make sure that you do not to anything wrong and that you will have to provide for your husband or wife and later on your family. It's not an easy thing, it surely is a lot of responsibility. 

3.What is the plan? - You start thinking about your future. If you want a family, if you will be able to provide for them, will you get a stable job, If you will need a new car.

Slow down... Sit with your partner and take your time and have a casual conversation. talk and discuss all the questions, plan it openly before your wedding day because there are situations where one wants to have a baby after the marriage and the other does not so they get divorced because of all the fights regarding the matter. If it is really needed, you can get a couples counselor, they will help you get your goals straight and improve your communication skills.